Working Out The Kinks, co-facilitated by Torvi and Naoimii of HVNY Rope, is a discussion group for BDSM, kink, and curious folks to come together for a safe space to talk about these niche interests. Each meeting will have a different area of focus for discussion, based on attendee input. Whether you’re a new kinkster looking for support, or a seasoned player looking to share your insight, or somewhere in between, all voices are welcome.

The Structure

Prior to meeting, we will send out an anonymous google form to registered attendees to fill out for input on topics they hope to discuss during our group meeting. The form is entirely voluntary, and is kept completely anonymous. On the day of, we will begin the discussion with a brief opening circle. We will hold an open discussion until 8:15pm with a 15 minute break roughly halfway through. At 8:15 we will offer a closing circle and a chance for some final thoughts. You are invited to stay until 9pm to snack, mingle, connect with other folks from the group, or approach us with any questions, comments, or concerns you’d like to express more privately. We will kindly ask everyone to leave by 9:00pm, though you are not obligated to stay beyond the closing circle if you do not wish to.